The Quest to find love may be through the internet.
I work a full time job along with going to school full time, in the little hours I have for myself is through social hangouts with my friends and laundry days. I have let my fashion stay in place, since my money is used for college student bills.
I used to go on a online dating website just for fun. The boys are pratically desperate and love giving you never ending compliments. My self esteem certianly went up, when I had strangers send me emails on "how pretty I was", "Most girls arn't like you" and " wow, I wish I could meet someone like you". The type of flattering a girl wants to hear from the distance, but not date.
The fear of dating online scares me. yet, what a wonderful concept to be able to come home after a long day looking like complete poop and in your pajamas, you check emails flattering you. Its a boost I think all girls need, every once in awhile. To feel pretty. To feel worthwhile.
I remember I was talking to a gentlemen who wanted to date when he got back from deployment. so he simply went straight to a free online dating website and connected with me. sadly, I am trying to stay the HELL AWAY from military men. afterall, I've had one hell of an experience with the last eight guys. So, I ignored this one gentlemen, deleted my account and moved on to being completely single.
Until one day when I discovered checking my old mail, I found an email from him. I completely forgot about giving him my private email address. Two Months later he addressed me, asking to take me out on a date. I haven't spoken to the man, and here he was, trying to reach me. Was I always this stubborn, or just with him?
A few clicks away, we were exchanging facebook messages, phone and texting each other, but haven't set a date to meet. That was the problem, We were always never finding time to meet, but then again it was during the holidays.
But now, I am still talking to this man,who I don't oddly call a stranger and I am putting it to the test. I am going on a date with someone I met online. Background check? good. Facebook check to make sure he is not creepy nor a player? All is well.
Let this technology relationship be put to the real world.
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