Let's say you meet Mr.perfect, he has everything that was on your list for greatness. He is not only a great talker, but wants to spend time with you. He gives you a message here and there, cooks you turkey burgers, and even will take you on vacation. He gets along great with your friends and your family likes him. All is good, right?
  This is/was my situation, I moved from the Douche to the simple perfect nice guy. He admired me and all was great about him, except for me not being attractive to him. When it came to all physical matters, I just couldn't. I didn't want to and even though he is perfect for an ideal boyfriend, he is not my ideal. Am I destine to find the Bad guy instead of the good guy?